Tambaya
Menene/ba a yarda ma'aurata Krista su yi jima'i ba?
Amsa
Inji Littafi Mai Tsarki “Kowa yă girmama aure, Gădon aure kuwa yă zauna marar dauɗa, don fasikai da mazinata Allah zai hukunta su” (Ibraniyawa 13:4). Nassi bai taɓa faɗin abin da mata da miji suke ba ko kuma ba a yarda su yi jima’i ba. An umurci miji da mata, “Kada ku hana juna sai da yardar juna kuma zuwa wani lokaci (1 Korantiyawa 7:5a). Wannan ayar wataƙila ta shimfiɗa ƙa'idar yin jima'i cikin aure. Duk abin da aka yi, ya kamata a yarda da shi. Babu wanda ya isa a karfafa shi ko a tilasta shi yin wani abu da ba shi da dadi ko yake tunanin ba daidai ba. Idan mata da miji duk sun yarda cewa suna son gwada wani abu (misali, jima'i ta baki, matsayi daban-daban, kayan wasan jima'i, da sauransu), to, Littafi Mai Tsarki bai ba da kowane dalili da ya sa ba za su iya ba.
Akwai wasu 'yan abubuwa, kodayake, waɗanda ba za a taɓa yin izinin jima'i ga ma'aurata ba. Aikin “canza sheka” ko “kawo wani kari” (abubuwa uku, huɗu, da dai sauransu) zina ce bayyananniya (Galatiyawa 5:19; Afisawa 5:3; Kolosiyawa 3:5; 1 Tassalunikawa 4:3). Zina zunubi ce koda matarka ta yarda, ta yarda, ko ma ta shiga ciki. Batsa na sha'awa zuwa “sha’awar jiki da sha’awar idanu” (1 Yahaya 2:16) don haka Allah ma ya la'anta shi. Ya kamata mata da miji su kawo batsa a cikin jima'i. Baya ga waɗannan abubuwa biyu, babu wani abin da Nassi ya hana a bayyane ya hana mata da miji yi da juna matuƙar dai ta hanyar yardar juna ce.
English
Menene/ba a yarda ma'aurata Krista su yi jima'i ba?