Tambaya
Ta yaya zan iya shirya kaina don aure?
Amsa
Shiryawa kai ga aure a bisa ƙa'ida kamar yadda yake a shirye yake don kowane irin aiki na rayuwa. Akwai wata ƙa'ida da ta kamata ta mallaki dukkan lamuran rayuwarmu a matsayin masu bi na sake haifuwa: “Ya ce masa, “Ka ƙaunaci Ubangiji Allahnka da dukkan zuciyarka, da dukkan ranka, da dukkan hankalinka” (Matiyu 22:37). Wannan ba umurni bane mara nauyi. Ita ce cibiyar rayuwarmu a matsayin masu imani. Zaba ne mu maida hankali ga Allah da Kalmarsa da dukkan zuciyarmu domin ruhunmu da tunaninmu su shagaltu da abubuwan da zasu gamshe shi.
Dangantakar da muke da shi da Allah ta wurin Ubangiji Yesu Kristi ita ce ke sanya sauran sauran alaƙar a cikin hangen nesa. Dangantakar aure ta dogara ne akan misalin Kristi da cocin sa (Afisawa 5:22-33). Kowane bangare na rayuwarmu yana gudana ta wurin sadaukarwarmu azaman masu bi don rayuwa bisa ga umarni da farillai na Ubangiji. Biyayyarmu ga Allah da kuma Kalmarsa suna shirya mu don cika matsayin da Allah ya ba mu a cikin aure da kuma duniya. Kuma aikin kowane mai-bi-da-bi shine tsarkake Allah a cikin komai (1 Korantiyawa 10:31).
Don shirya kanka don aure, yin tafiya wanda ya cancanci kiranka cikin Kiristi Yesu, da kusantar Allah da Kalmarsa (2 Timothawus 3: 16-17), mai da hankali kan biyayya cikin kowane abu. Babu wani shiri mai sauƙi don koyan tafiya cikin biyayya ga Allah. Zabi ne dole ne muyi kowace rana don kawar da ra'ayin duniya kuma bi Allah a maimakon haka. Yin tafiya wanda ya cancanci Almasihu shine mika kanmu cikin tawali'u zuwa hanya madaidaiciya, Gaskiya ɗaya tak da kuma Rai ɗaya a kan kowace rana, lokaci-lokaci. Wannan shine shirye-shiryen da kowane mai bi yana buƙatar kasancewa cikin shiri don babbar baiwa da muke kira aure.
Mutumin da ya manyanta a ruhaniya kuma yana tafiya tare da Allah ya fi kowacce shiri don aure. Aure yana buƙatar sadaukarwa, sha'awa, tawali'u, kauna, da girmamawa. Waɗannan halaye suna bayyana sosai ga mutumin da yake da dangantaka ta kud da kud da Allah. Yayinda kuke shirya kanku don aure, ku mai da hankali ga barin Allah ya sassaka ku kuma ya canza ku zuwa namiji ko mace da yake so ku zama (Romawa 12:1-2) Idan kun miƙa kanku gare shi, zai ba ku damar kasancewa a shirye don aure lokacin da wannan ranar mai ban mamaki ta zo.
English
Ta yaya zan iya shirya kaina don aure?