Tambaya
Shin ba daidai ba ne ma'aurata su zauna tare kafin aure?
Amsa
Amsar wannan tambayar ta dogara da ɗan abin da ake nufi da “zama tare.” Idan yana nufin yin jima'i, babu shakka kuskure ne. Yin jima'i kafin aure ana hukunta shi akai-akai a cikin Nassi, tare da duk wasu nau'ikan fasikanci (Ayukan Manzanni 15:20; Romawa 1:29; 1 Korantiyawa 5:1; 6:13, 18; 7:2; 10:8; 2 Korantiyawa 12:21; Galatiyawa 5:19; Afisawa 5:3; Kolosiyawa 3:5; 1 Tassalunikawa 4:3; Yahuza 7). Littafi Mai Tsarki ya inganta cikakkiyar ƙaura a wajen (da kuma kafin) aure. Jima'i kafin aure daidai yake da zina da sauran nau'ikan lalata, domin duk sun haɗa da yin lalata da wanda ba ku aura ba.
Idan “zama tare” yana nufin zama a gida ɗaya, wannan wataƙila wata magana ce daban. Daga qarshe, babu wani laifi a tare mata da miji da suke zaune a gida daya — idan babu wani abu na lalata. Koyaya, matsalar ta taso ne kasancewar har yanzu akwai bayyanar lalata (1 Tassalunikawa 5:22; Afisawa 5:3), kuma yana iya zama babbar jaraba ta lalata. Littafi Mai Tsarki ya gaya mana mu guji lalata, kar mu fallasa kanmu ga jarabobi na lalata (1 Korantiyawa 6:18). Sannan akwai matsalar bayyana. Ma'aurata da suke zaune tare ana ɗauka cewa suna kwana tare-wannan yanayin ne kawai. Kodayake zama a cikin gida ɗaya ba laifi bane kuma da kansa, kamannin zunubi yana nan. Littafi Mai Tsarki ya gaya mana mu guji bayyanar mugunta (1 Tassalunikawa 5:22; Afisawa 5:3), mu guje wa lalata, kuma kada mu sa kowa ya yi tuntuɓe ko ya ji haushi. A sakamakon haka, ba girmamawa ga Allah ba ne ga mace da namiji su zauna tare ba tare da aure ba.
English
Shin ba daidai ba ne ma'aurata su zauna tare kafin aure?